Mmmm . . . Turkey Day. I have a relationship with food. I consider Thanksgiving our anniversary.
Every year, I celebrate our love with an enormous amount of turkey, gravy, stuffing, cranberry sauce, mashed potatoes—I’m drooling—sweet potatoes with melted marshmallows, limas and carrots, and my favorite: corn pudding. My pie plate is a combo of pumpkin and pecan.
I’m in agony after writing that. Give me a moment. OK.
When I realized that I was actually in Cambodia and therefore would not be consuming this glorious meal, I had my first real longing for my life back home. I missed something else, too, that I hadn’t really thought about before: tradition.
I wouldn’t wake up to my mom and grandma prepping the turkey and stuffing. There wouldn’t be the sound of the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade in the background. I wouldn’t be fighting over how much corn pudding I was going to share with my uncle if one of the two casserole dishes broke.
I won’t bore you with more examples, but having those traditions with my family seemed as enjoyable as the food itself.
Traveling is especially hard during the holidays and it forces you to think about what’s important on those days and how to find those things wherever you may be.
So when I heard from a little birdie that a restaurant near my apartment served a delicious turkey dinner with mashed potatoes and gravy, I decided to celebrate Thanksgiving in Cambodia.
A few friends told a few other friends to meet up at the Blue Dolphin for a little dinner of thanks. Before we knew it we were adding chairs and tables to the group to fit our new family.
Most everyone in our group of twenty ordered the turkey dinner—after a bit of menu confusion we decided it was actually turkey and not ch-ur-duck-en, which we’d been calling it most of the night.
In my enthusiasm about the turkey dinner I inhaled hastily ate mine when I got it, so this is a picture from a friend. *Thanks Maggie*
The potatoes were real mashed potatoes and the gravy was sent from heaven, I swear. The turkey was stuffed with onions, chicken, ham, parsley, and some other seasonings, and was moist and delicious. The vegetables were vegetables, but I ate every bite.
It reignited the flame of love for me and I’m pretty sure I caught some other people having an affair with their dinners, too.
We all still talked about the dishes we missed and how we wished there were pie, but overall it was a night to be thankful for. New friends, good food, and cheap beer. Oh yeah, and we were in freakin’ Cambodia.
Hey Margaret,
This is Rachel, Teddy’s friend…I guess you call him Nathan?? Anyway, I wanted to let you know that I am really enjoying your blogs and look forward to reading them. I especially loved this one because Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday too. I empathized with all of your thoughts and concerns. I’m glad you found new friends to share the holiday with. Of all the Thanksgivings you will have in your lifetime, I’m sure this is one that will come to mind every year…or at least most years.
Hope all is going well for you. You sound like you are having a great experience there!!
Best,
Rachel